I threw out all my dresses and put my Bible in a box. Got rid of shallow people who like to tell me what I'm not I even kissed an Emily and came out to my family I learned to take it easy, let empathy surround me Am I growin' up Or am I growin' in To my skin and my age and my surroundings The niche and the bad things about me? Am I movin' on Or am I movin' in And accepting that I'll always be changing That this life is a mess and it's amazing? I wish I could've told myself when I was a kid Nobody's really growing up We're just growing in I finally stopped chasing personified question marks Now I can talk politics with my grandpa and not take it to heart And I fell in love and fell out of it Thought it'd kill me but got over it I'm not afraid of a full meal, the mirror or my brain Am I growin' up Or am I growin' in To my skin and my age and my surroundings The niche and the bad things about me? Am I movin' on Or am I movin' in And accepting that I'll always be changing That this life is a mess and it's amazing? I wish I could've told myself when I was a kid Nobody's really growing up We're just growing in You have time, kid So just take your time, kid You have time, kid, kid, kid You have time, kid Just take your time, kid You have time, kid Just take your time, kid, kid, kid